Remember, a bad relationship can destroy your life.
A woman must choose a godly head. The authority flows through the husband for good or bad. If she thinks she can't humble herself and obey and follow a man she is attracted to, the relationship should be terminated.
Relationships are not built on sex, charisma - the way he talks, walks, dresses (women love this to their detriment), handsomeness, feelings, or status in society.
They are built on trust, godly principles, and beliefs.
"For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him." (Genesis 18:19)
"There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and eschewed evil." (Job 1:1)