Sometimes it really, really hurts your heart, when a woman is abused or cheated on by a charismatic man. But, let's be real, that's the man they like...to their detriment. Groomed by romance books, movies, songs and tv. They believe the fairytale about the tall and handsome, or cool, has a flashy car, and money!
And, of course, he could talk all lies!
Without Christ, men wreak havoc in women's lives leaving a trail of destruction where they are not good for anyone else. Women, never allow yourself to be tricked or motivated by handsomeness, money, power or even worse a glib tongue. All these are the recipe for a lifetime of misery. You need a man that genuinely loves God and knows how to love and be sensitive to a woman.
"Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee: To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things; Who leave the paths of uprightness, to walk in the ways of darkness; Who rejoice to do evil, and delight in the frowardness of the wicked; Whose ways are crooked, and they froward in their paths:"(Prov 2:11-15)
"He is proud, knowing nothing, but doting about questions and strifes of words, whereof cometh envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings. Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself. … For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. And having food and raiment let us be therewith content." (1Tim 6:4-5,7-8)