****Trying to Change Her****

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Dear Marriage Mechanics, My girlfriend has an attitude.  My mother told me that after we get married, she will submit naturally with kindness and love. Is that true? Signed Attitude Problem

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Dear Attitude Problem, Whereas people can and do change, it's a myth to believe we can change people after marriage. People are who they are.  The key to a successful relationship is recruitment. Don't ever believe that you can change people…only God can do that! Many women and men believed that they can change people with their love and kindness only to be bruised and hurt by fake people. If he is a cheater before he was married, he will be a cheater after marriage no matter how much you have sex or how you have sex. He is a cheater. That's who he is. If she is stubborn and rebellious before you marry her, she will be worse after you get married. Remember, God warns us never to be unequally yoked. The Holy Spirit and demons don't mix...

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.”  (2 Corinthians 6:14-16) “For three things the earth is disquieted, and for four which it cannot bear:  For a servant when he reigneth; and a fool when he is filled with meat; For an odious woman when she is married; and an handmaid that is heir to her mistress.”  (Proverbs 30:21-23) Marriage Mechanics