Food For Thought!
He is an avid feminist. In the Bible, he is known as Ahab. This is a man that pretends to be sensitive to women and women’s issues. He impresses woman by siding with their views and biases. Truth is, he is a very confused and insecure man usually dominated by women especially if he is married. He could also be a closet bisexual.
Where are your thoughts coming from?
He resents male authority and hates strong men because it reminds him of what he doesn’t have. He is a very dangerous man because of his potential to influence other men and godly order in homes disguised as well-meaning. Shockingly, many of them today are in church heading marriage groups and marriage clubs. Some are even pastors...so beware!
How are decisions being made?
Listen, the truth is never what the crowd says. “Strait is the way and narrow is the path that leads to life and few their be that find it.” Women and men are indeed created equal before God. That is the truth. But, they were created for different roles. Women and men are not to submit to each other. That’s demonic confusion. The man is the leader and head. He submits to Christ, his head. He is God’s designated leader in the home. False equality downplays gender differences and attacks male authority as misogynic and outdated.
What and who is the source of your life?
A good leader is humble and God-fearing (not man-fearing). He should listen and incorporate his wife’s good advice. He loves being a servant and treating his wife like himself. Humility and the fear of God opens the door for grace and wisdom to guide the family.
Fear is of the devil.
Marriage above everything is a planform to serve. Only an insecure man subjugates his wife or forces his wife to submit. Only an insecure woman undermines and rebels against her husband’s authority.
There is no “I” in team and Together, Everyone, Achieves, More. (TEAM).
When we fear people, we are afraid to be truthful and real because ...
We fear their rejection and ridicule.
We fear failure so we run after money and success.
We scorn those who are less fortunate.
We follow the crowd and govern our lives by what people say. We depend on our intellect and pretend that we really know, only to continue the process of having bad relationships, living in ddeception, and making stupid decisions; bad is good and good is bad.
"And Ahab the son of Omri did evil in the sight of the LORD above all that were before him. And it came to pass, as if it had been a light thing for him to walk in the sins of Jeroboam the son of Nebat, that he took to wife Jezebel the daughter of Ethbaal king of the Zidonians, and went and served Baal, and worshipped him." (1 Kings 16:30-31)
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