Updated: Sep 27, 2019
ASK MARRIAGE MECHANICS
Dear Marriage Mechanics,
I have been reading your advice for awhile. I noticed you are constantly advising against premarital sex.
As a man, I need to know what's going on down-under. I don't want to marry someone who doesn't know how to make love or whose sexual organ is destroyed.
That's why it's important to test drive the car. I would love to hear your advice on this subject.
Signed I Test Drive
Dear I Test Drive,
When we struggle with faith, questions like these seem major. Like, someone said, "Without true wisdom, we major in minor and minor in major." Sexual intercourse is very importent to a marriage but it's not the most important thing!
In fact, you are settng yourself up for failure like most people today, and the reason for so many, so many, failed marriages. Most people today are bypassing sound relationship principles for pleasure. They have become lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God. And, they are reaping a harvest of: disease, broken relationships, and divorce.
A woman is not a walking sexual organ. She is a spiritual being dressed in flesh. The most important thing about her is her heart. And, if she has a good heart, she will fear and love God. She will not sleep around and destroy her sexual organ. A good woman is a faithful woman..
If you follow the right principles, God will not fail you. He gives us the desires of our hearts, if we put him first. As a young believer in Christ, the Lord exceeded my expectations, in a providing a good wife. She was a virgin and was everything I wanted, then some. He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
"Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart." (Psalms 37:4)