Never Trust a Selfish Person

Food For Thought! 

Hurt, bruised, lied to, cheated on, deceived, and deluded are just some of the words to describe relationship remorse today.  People seem to be possessed by a spiritual force to do ugly and unthinkable things to ruin the lives of others. 


They simply can't be trusted!


It's the truth. 


  • You are a fool to trust without verification! 

  • You are a fool to get deeply involved without understanding the person. 


It's not what they say that validates a relationship, it's what they do! 

If you are reading this, I beg, I plead, and encourage you to give everything time


Time will tell the tale! 


  • Do not jump in bed and have sex with people you don't know. 

  • Don't say I do because of what you feel. 


It's crazy "out there" and you could lose your health, peace, and even your life.

Do not, you should not, marry a person who exhibits selfish behavior.  Marriage above everything is a platform to serve.


Again, marriage is a service industry.


If they believe that serving you is demeaning....get loose of them and let them go.  A selfish person is dangerous and trouble. In their very deluded mind, they only think about and serve one person: themselves.

You see, they think that love is a feeling.  So, they think that they are in love when they are simply infatuated with your appearance.  But, love is much more than a feeling.  And, the reason couples who truly love hold on during the dark days of financial misfortune, arguments, and God forbid adultery.   


Love is a choice and decision to give, looking for nothing in return. 

As scripture says,


"Love seeks not it's own."

  In other words, I here for you. 


Hmmm.  Jesus said,


"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friend."

You will be a fool to lay down your life-that is-what marriage is


.... laying down your life for another person....


for a selfish person who doesn't know or refuses to love in return. 



Marriage is a lifetime experience!

As crazy and as foolish as this seems, this is what people do every day in our very dark and deceitful times. 


  • Be proactive. 

  • Be wise. 


Don't trust selfish people...not with your life!!!

"This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away."  (2 Timothy 3:1-5)

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