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Dear Marriage Mechanics,
I am really really in confusion! Our marriage group leader told us last week that men and women are to submit to each other and nobody has power over the next person in a marriage.
Janet and I used to have our disagreements and usually, she would calm down and we would work through them. But, that all changed since last week. It seems like all the respect is gone.
My marriage is taking on a lot of water!
Sorry to hear your situation. I encourage not to reject your wife or to pull back from loving her. She needs you now more than ever!
Prayer does change things, so keep praying. Sad to say, a lot of male feminists are now in churches destroying marriages and families through corrupt teachings. Much of what they say appear truthful and very benign on the surface. But it's marital cancer. And, because the spirit of Jezebel i.e. a domineering woman, rules their marriage, they spread it to other marriages.
God is a person of order and not confusion. He formed the man first. The man is the head Women submit to men. Men submit to Christ. Feminism is so entrenched in western culture that most women now think it's a disgrace and anathema to submit or be obedient to their husbands.. As a result, homes are in turmoil and producing a cursed seed of homosexuals and transgenders destined for the wrath and judgment of God. The very foundation of civilization, male and female, is under seige.
I encourage and warn you not to give up your authority "for peace sake." Nor be drawn into unnecessary verbal or physical altercations that never bring resolution. Remember, your enemy is not your wife but rather the spiritual forces and strongholds that are in her mind.
"But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God." (1 Corinthians 11:3)
"But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve." (1 Timothy 2:12-13)
"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband ii the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing." (Ephesians 5:22-24)
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