When people get married... They want to be single and when they are single... they want to be married. They live by their flesh and emotions. Always blaming someone else for their problems and bad decisions.
Truth is, we reap what we sow.
We can't be so finicky...but listen...
We must trust God and be content in whatever state we may be in.
"For godliness with contentment is great gain"
Be patient. In your patience, you will move in God's timing... and God's timing... it's always, always beautiful.
Like Joseph out of prison to governorship
and David becoming king after being chased and hunted.
God makes everything beautiful in his time.
"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven...He hath made every thing beautiful in his time." (Ecclesiastes 3:1-11)