Betrayal is perhaps one of life's most painful events, especially if it's done by someone who has promised to love and care for you until death. Whether it's a lies, wasting money, physical abuse or by neglect, or a real dagger like adultery, living with a uncaring and abusive husband is nothing short of misery.
(By the way, if a man doesn't love, cherish and pay attention to you...it's abusive behavior)
But, what do we do?
Do we just sit back and just endure the abuse?
Do we divorce them and look for love elsewhere?
No, none of those!
Life is about fearing God and keeping his commandments. If he says respect and obey your husband, it's deception to think or do otherwise.
Now, here is the catch!
Life calls for wisdom as the Bible says that it's the principle thing. People fail at life because they think life is chance. It's not!
It's a matrix governed by spiritual laws...and you need wisdom!
Wisdom comes from God who only gives it to a humble heart. Wisdom will tell you when to confront him; when to be quiet; how to handle money; even how to make love.
Wisdom is the principle thing!
With wisdom, you can navigate a bad man and a bad marriage...because nothing is impossible with God!
"Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;"(1 Peter 3:1)