Updated: Jan 20
The first thing a man notices about a woman is her shape then her looks. And, if those two meet his criteria, he is ready for more action.
Nothing is wrong with that.
But, be very, very, mature. What's in her heart is far more important than how she looks on the outside!
And, even if she is intelligent, has a great job, and financially independent that
doesn't mean you can seal the deal. Nothing in life, even facing death, is as terrible as being married to a bad woman.
God designed women to influence us. They are the rib next to our hearts. So, if she is pretty, sexy, and even smart, fine, but make sure she has a humble heart and knows her position in marriage: help-mate.
"Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised." (Prov 31:30)
"And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her." (Ecclesiastes 7:26)
"That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." (Titus 2:4-5)